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I'm with you Dee-Marie, I find spankings too funny and I have a pain disorder so being actually hurt is a no-no for me as it has effects that are debilitating for days after ... but I do like it intensely when my Man uses his strength to overcome me. Erotically we like to play with my "smallness" and his power over that. We fool around like overgrown kids: poking, tickling, chasing, grabbing, I like to fight back, we like to wrestle and at some point he stops it all so easily I realise that he hasn't even come close to using the extent of his strength. He holds my wrists and presses me to him, or traps me against something etc ... melting-Aimee. It does hurt minimally, but the whole point is that I am playing with his power and he plays back with me - up to a point, then I can see/feel/smell him for what he is and I am thoroughly-trustingly-afraid, acutely aware of the differences between our sexes and very turned on!
And I'm with you on the wall punching too. We generally just talk a lot if we disagree and if he wants me to stop a line he is manly-firm. We don't really have heated arguments (bizarre for me). But in an enraged situation my estimation of my Man is thus - walking away is weak, hurting my body is weak but showing me how much is going on inside without abandoning me or destroying me, just letting it out on a wall ... that's strength. Then I get a view of his true inside status and can adjust accordingly. I am a talker though, so my submission at that point is to listen attentively and try to find where our communication is going awry then change tack.
I wonder if he and I are not somewhat different to most here in that we switch top and bottom roles according to whose/which domain we are operating in. As such, I find that I erotically need his physically intimidating dominance more than I ever did in those past relationships where the male was always asserting dominance over me in all domains. (The wall-punching was not ok for me then.) And interestingly now I think about it, we do argue very rarely. I wonder if that is not because (1) we are not engaged in everyday struggles for power and (2) he is not generally dominating so if I am spinning out in an argument and he does get firm, then I tend to listen up quickly. Just thinking aloud.
